In yesterday's post, we discovered the two first levels of going from an anxious attachment style to a secure attachment style. It was all about one word, one adjective. Go check it out if you haven't already.
Today, we're going forward to level 3, which is:
Instead of obsessing over one thing you want, realize that you might actually want and get something even better.
So your new motto should be: "This... or better!"
Another way to think about this level is to think this way:
Instead of always assuming that change is for the worse, if change is inevitable, assume it's for the better.
And voilà, your attachment problem is fixed.
(Or if not fixed, then something better.)
RK
